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Reclamation

Ancestral Reconnection and Underworld Work

August 27th - August 30th 2026
KDOL Mount Tuam Buddhist Retreat Center
Salt Spring Island, BC Canada

LIMITED TO 8 MEN 

There's a moment in every man's life when the line behind him stops being history and starts being inheritance. Sometimes it arrives quietly: a phrase from your father's mouth coming out of yours. Sometimes in a body that won't sleep, carrying weight it can't name. Either way, it arrives. And then there's a choice.

Even if what was handed to you is mostly pain, you have the work of alchemizing it into something the next men can stand on. Whether they share your blood or your bond doesn't change the assignment.

In this container, you go back. Into the line you came from. Into the body that's been carrying it. And you decide, clearly, with witnesses, what you take forward and what ends with you.

Done in the only way it can actually be done. Alongside other men doing the same.

CURRENTLY AT EARLY BIRD PRICING TILL JUNE 10TH 2026
If you LIVE IN CANADA, send an e-transfer to ish@radicaleros.com
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WHAT WE COME TO UNCOVER

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There are stories your body has been carrying that were never yours to hold alone. The grief that was handed down without a map. The rage that had nowhere to go. The love that got distorted somewhere between your grandfather's hands and yours.

We come to uncover the man who exists beneath the conditioning. Beneath the survival strategies. Beneath everything you built to make it through.

We come to find out what your lineage actually gave you, not just what it cost you. Because somewhere in that line, there are men who knew things. Who held things. Who moved through this world in ways that are already alive in you, waiting to be claimed.

We come to look at what has been passed down, name it clearly, and decide, with full awareness, what we carry forward and what ends with us.

The Arc

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Thursday — Severance.
You arrive. We open the container, call in the four directions, and each man puts his name into the circle. This is checking in to check out of your life: putting down the role, the inbox, the version of you that performs.

Friday — Descent.
We go into the underbelly. Lineage as the doorway, but whatever shadow is alive in you is welcome: grief, rage, sexual shame, the things that were never spoken at any table you sat at. We work with embodiment, not just talking. We give the shadow somewhere to go. Friday night, a big experience; the death practice, the one that lets the old version of you be put down properly so the new one can be picked up. You will go to bed tender.

Saturday — Reclamation.
We re-open the circle, move, check in, keep working. By afternoon the energy begins to lighten. We start calling each man up into the king energy already alive in his line: the gifts that have been waiting for someone to claim them. Your name becomes a portal to the conscious power you are calling in.

Sunday — Re-Entry.
We check out so you can check back into your life but as someone different. Conscious connected breathing. Closing the directions. Cleaning the space together. You leave with your name, your lineage, and the gold all in your hands. What you do with it from there is the rest of your life.

WHY DO THIS?

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You don't want to hand the next generation what was handed to you.
Or maybe you don't yet know what was handed down — only that something is.

Either is enough reason to come.

The weight you have carried has a source, and through this work you can metabolize and alchemize it.

This is how the question stops being "what happened to me" and becomes "what am I going to do about it."

You are here.
In this life. In this body. With this lineage. And that is not an accident. It is an assignment.

This work is not about fixing yourself. You are not broken.
It is about coming into full contact with who you actually are and deciding to stop living at half the size you were built for.

Investment: CAD 1100 (USD 800)
EARLY BIRD PRICING OF CAD $950 (USD 695) BEFORE JUNE 10TH

August 27th - August 30th 2026
KDOL Mount Tuam Buddhist Retreat Center
Salt Spring Island, BC Canada

LIMITED TO 8 MEN

Pre Retreat Orientation Call
August 1st 2026, Time TBD

Post Retreat Integration Call
September 5th 2026, Time TBD

PLEASE NOTE THERE ARE NO REFUNDS FOR THIS EVENT
BE SURE OF YOUR COMMITMENT
If YOU LIVE IN CANADA, send an e-transfer to ish@radicaleros.com
USD CLICK BELOW

The Retreat

You bring your own camping gear, food for the weekend, and toiletries.
Shared kitchen and bathrooms are on site.
Water, tea, fruit, and snacks provided.
Travel to and from the land is yours to arrange.

Come ready to be in nature. Come ready to be self-reliant. Come ready to stop performing for a few days.

If you still have questions feel free to book a clarifying call with either Ish or Arivind:

Book with Ish
Book with Arivind

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Your Guides

Ish Hasan guides men through the crossings most don't have language for: divorce, illness, fatherhood, the slow death of a self. His own crucibles (immigration, a near-drowning, divorce, chronic illness) shaped the work behind Radical Eros: a refusal to let men keep performing instead of living. He draws from meditation traditions, ancestral rites of passage, intimacy education, and masculine embodiment. He offers 1:1 coaching, men's rites, wilderness vigils, and is the author of The First Lessons: Practices for How to Be Human.

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Arivind Abraham serves as a ferryman for those navigating the passages between death and rebirth. His work is rooted in Tibetan Buddhist practice, his maternal lineage's relationship with Kali Amman, and decades spent learning what it means to die and be reborn—again and again. He guides others through the liminal spaces where the old self falls away and something truer begins to emerge